Under this heading Covey writes to us that in order to have the relationships we want in our lives we have to become “ourselves” what we seek in others. He tells us that this must come first if we are to expect others to respond to us in the ways we desire. For example; if we want to be trusted we must be worthy of trust. That makes sense, “Right?” Bottom line; become what you want to be treated as. The only way to do that is to work on yourself inside!