Buildings are envisioned before they are planned out on paper and constructed. Businesses are born of vision and planning, too. You might have even created a mental picture image in your mind of the kind of person you would like to marry and the family you’d like to have with them long before you ever met these people.
Bottom line? When you approach things in your world this way, not only do things run much more smoothly, it is very true that, “All things were created twice!”